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Angel

Angel, passed Friday November 17, 2006. In her youth she was a terror. Small in stature but a bully none the less! She always wanted to sleep curled up under my chin so that I would breath fur. Ara loved her because she tolerated her 'petting' and love. I miss her.

Sweet Pea

What is Wierd About You/Myspace Rant

I have always had an issue with using a dish from the dish rack. I guess I feel like it was too recently dirty. Or, you know when you really need a fork, but they are all dirty so you wash one really fast. Yeah, I have a really hard time with that too.
If it's still wet.. ick.
If you dried it with a dish towel.. ick.

There I feel better now.

Speaking of things that bother me though. Myspace.com. Every single time I naively look at at a myspace page I am amazed. What makes people think that some hideous, busy, and distracting picture is a good background? Hello, we can't even read your text! Also, don't put music on your site. Please. I mean paleeeeeeeeease. I don't want to hear some low quality, slow loading, music that is not of my choosing. Then there is the issue where all your friends THINK they know their myspace address and yet mysteriously it takes 30 minutes of searching myspace and then google because myspace search sucks to locate the page. I think they do that on purpose to keep you on myspace longer. And last but certainly not least, once you finally find the page you are looking for, you can't actually view anything unless you sign up. Brilliant. Annoying.

I play an online game, ffxi and it seems like everyone you meet has a myspace. It's part of our culture now despite my feelings. Like the Ipod, blogging, IMing, and the use of 'lol'. I will never escape it. I don't feel however that, that is any reason to stop ranting about it!

One side note though, parents for the love of god supervise your children online. It is scary how many teens are online begging for someone to pay attention to them. You may not realize it, but there is some freak on the internet who does.

She is small, and very funny.

In perspective Ara is very small, but look through my eyes and her face fills my vision. I was trying to teach her about kisses today and by the her bath time she kept offering me her 'My Little Pony" to kiss and giggling. My persistence paid off though because as I carried her to bed she gave me 7 kisses! Her birthday is in 12 days now and I am feeling so nostalgic about last year and how I can't believe it's been a year, and how she has grown so much. Today, she was entertaining herself by standing at the coffee table and driving a toy car back and forth. She even makes the car sounds, so ferociously so that she drools like a mad woman. I sat watching her play and every once in a while she would look up at me and smile. She doesn't find it odd that her Mother stares at her all the time! We took a walk downtown today since it was pretty mild summer weather. I felt on top of the world strolling along with my girl. We stopped in some of the shops, we shared an organic fruit pop from the CoOp, we got Joey a 250 year old salt rock from the Himalayas (don't ask), and Ara toppled a book display in the charming book store. Good times!

My Toddler!

Ara started walking last Sunday 7.16.06. She just stood up in the middle of the room and took 4 of the smallest little steps. We watching in silence, with our eyes welling up with tears. She is usually pretty cautious and fairly graceful considering she is so new. Her birthday party is all planned and I am so excited. I am even going to try to bake the cake lol! I already got 3 cake mixes, the extras are for an error margin!

P.S. Hugs to Chris and Audra. Chris you stay safe and come back.

Update on the craving

I just realized what I'm craving.. I haven't had one in a REALLY long time, like years. It's a grilled chicken sandwich from McDonalds, with a ton of that honey mustard you have to ask for. Oh and french fries. Ohhhh the starchy, crispy, carbo-licious goodness.

~I need something to read.

I just finished reading the entire Harry Potter series again. I read the Half Blood Prince last summer for the first time (while pregnant) and I missed a lot of the details. I think I read to fast the first time. Anyway, now I'm sort of at a loss for what to read. I was thinking of re-reading Under a Tuscan Sun, but I feel stuck in a rut re-reading books all the time. That is exactly what I read last summer. Of course, I read MANY books about parenting and child development but what I need is an "unwind" book. So I have been sitting here trying to think of my favorite authors.. which is very non-adventurous of me. I do LOVE Kinsolver and I never did read the Poisonwood Bible, but I don't feel drawn to it.

I am just rambling

in text

for people to read

and somehow that seems ironic to me.

I'm craving.. something. It's the kind of craving where you can almost smell what you want. Some sort of salty-crunchy maybe. Wish I could eat salty-crunchy...

Rymi and Ohm

Yesterday, Fun and I met our first online friends ever. Needless to say we were nervous! They drove down from Phoenix and we had a late lunch and then went.. roller skating! We had fun, they were normal and all was good! I just hope they thought WE were normal...

Fish!

A few days ago Ara started looking up at the fish tank and saying quietly, "shhhh".

At the grocery store we stopped to look at the lobsters in a tank and she tells me,
"Mam (a combination of Mom and Mama I think) F-shhhhh".

Today we were in the pool and I told her she was a fish.

Now when I make a swimming motion with my arms we both laugh and say, "F-shhhh".

She is my secret joy.

Control. Do you need it?

Control Our Junk.com! Hilarious-satisfying waste of your time. You can control the.. junk remotely from your computer. My Brother actually found the site.


Since we are on the subject of webcams. Yesterday I had Ara on my lap and I was looking for pictures of zoo animals to show her. I stumbled across the San Diego Zoo cams. We watched the elephant and panda bears. Once again the internet brings far away things close!

Ara and I have been swimming, and I am LOVING watching her learn about things that float, kicking her legs, using her arms to move the water to bring things closer. You cannot help but be effected by her curious and optimistic view of the world. Motherhood is beautiful.

Multi-tasking

I recently had the realization that I am ALWAYs multi-tasking.

I'm driving in the car --I'm raising a child.

Buying groceries --I'm raising a child.

Taking a shower --I'm raising a child.

I never do anything without Ara on my mind. I am so different from myself a year ago I am unrecognizable. I would have laughed my ass off if someone told me I would be feeling like a regimented schedule is awesome someday. Or that I would NOT think that 7 AM is freakishly early. I guess it really just says a lot about me that I didn't think Motherhood would change me so completely. I was naive in thinking that Ara would live my life, I pictured us hanging out at Barnes with cutesy baby in the stroller napping happily. I thought of us hiking with her in one of those backpacks. Us in fancy restaurants with our angel in the car seat making happy coo- noises. Not to say that we don't do those things but our life is definitely much more Ara-oriented! I cringe when I think of taking her out before her afternoon nap. I fume over people who set appointment in the middle of Ara's lunchtime.

And, do not even THINK of making noise while she is sleeping unless you would like to incur my wrath!

Ara Update:

• She is almost ready to walk. If you turn her toy box over she pushes it around like a shopping cart.

• She is SIGNING back! I swell with pride and love every time she does the sign for milk or tells me she is hungry.

• She is talking more and more and responds with signs. Kitty, Dada, Mom, Bam-pa (Grandpa), Ja ja (cousin Joey), Ba-na-na.

• She imitates talking on the phone with any toy that even remotely resembles one. Or when the real phone rings.

• She played with the big kids in the McD's Playplace (see picture)!

Peaches for free!

All this time I've been slicing an dicing every piece of fruit so tiny and it turns out she loves nothing more than a pealed whole peach. This is the picture of happiness! Ara went to her ped today, she has pink eye. I have NO idea how she came into contact with pink eye except maybe when we went to the library yesterday. Anyway, her little eyes are so puffy and goopy. She doesn't let it slow her down though!

My feelings for the day: Relief that it's over!

Goodnight!

Araness

There was a moment today when Ara caught my gaze and looked straight into my eyes for what seemed like a minute. As I looked into those dark dark brown eyes I was almost startled by her depth. I see such intelligence, curiosity, and love inside those eyes.

Ara has been sort of complaining lately as she crawls/cruises in the living room. She really wants to explore and finds her safety zone boring. I hate having to constantly bring her back when she crawls away. I don't want to discourage her, so I started trying to think of different ways to engage her mind. We got her some giant Crayons and a piece of paper and she was SO excited. I actually have Ara's first artistic expression in my hand. I have also been trying to change my tone of voice when I say "aht aht aht" to stop her from eating the crayons. I can't understand, I am doing everything the "child experts" say to do and my baby thinks it's really funny! She laughs and laughs. She even holds the crayon near her mouth and looks at me expectantly!

Cut and Paste Thoughts

Book: Goblet of Fire (yes again)

Activity: Playing FFXI tonight. BLM Ka-Boom. We recently reactivated our characters since we stopped playing a while ago. Not our old old characters though, sadly.

Music: Evanescence, I haven't listed to them in forever (so don't call me an emo).

Karma: So this lady sat in a chair next to me in class, picked up my pencil and kept it. The next day, one of my students gave me a gift; a pack of pencils, pens, and super cool highlighter post-it pens. Lose a pencil, gain many pencils!

On my Mind: I should make a To-Do list because I feel like I have a lot to do! What kind of people stick random bumper stickers on their cars? I saw a van today that read, "It's all about me" and "If you don't like abortion, don't have one" you do have to wonder.

Araness: Little wonder girl was in a kind of quiet mood today. Her Daddy has been working more so she wanted to be close to me all day, and I have NO objections to Ara-love. Head-hugs galore! She is cruising now, and even trying to stand without support.

TO DO:
Upload Ara pictures to Yahoo and have them printed
Have a set of pictures sent to CA grandma
Call Thursday student
Think about summer teaching day
Read chapter in child development book
Look at other child development books
Grocery store!
Get Ara a new toy box

Parenting Class :: Now go to your room!

We have our second session of our Parenting Class tomorrow night. At our first class last week we learned about the 3 basic styles of parenting.
1. Authorative
2. Permissive
3. Democratic
We discussed each style and it was clear that we were supposed to come to the conclusion that Democratic is the way to be. We did actually agree with that conclusion so that was convenient. Democratic parenting involves giving your child choices, which can be challenging. I do like the ultimate goal though, and that is to instill in your child a sense of worth and belonging. Parenting is a daunting task. I am so glad we are taking this class because it seems like consistency is the key to everything and we should start from the very beginning. It's strange, the more you are a parent the more you think about how you are a daughter. My own experiences from childhood keep popping up in my mind and I seem to see them from a completely different perspective. Anyway, we asked so many questions in class that the other students started to make fun of us! At the end of class the teacher asked each of us to talk about something we had learned. One guy said that he learned that new parents ask a lot of questions! Pfft. At the end of this 6 week class we will be getting a certificate. I will be a certified Mom. Woot.

Diet Update: Damn these strawberries are good (snaking on strawberries while I type). I am feeling much more energetic today! It is amazing how sugar, carbs, and caffeine can fool you into thinking you have energy. With sleep, water, and healthy food I feel like a semi-new person! I will feel much MUCH better though when I can fit into my pre-pregnancy jeans.

Ara Update: The girl is on the move! Today Fun supported her as she walked across the room to me. She still drags her feet and no way does she have the balance to stand on her own yet but she looks damn cute! We had to buy her a playpen today because she is so fast we were starting to worry. It is a very cool playpen though and she seems to think its fun. It has a little zipper door that you can open so she can roam in and out until you need to close it up. It has a canopy that is all mesh so you can even take it outside and spare her mosquito bites! What did people do before all of these nifty and convenient inventions? She is doing this new thing where she puts one hand on her head and says, "ha". We think she is mimicking talking on the phone! She says the "ha" if you say "hi" so we are pretty sure that's what she is saying. So far we have identified Kitty, Joey, Em, Mom, Dada, and Bampa (grandpa). She also seems like MAYBE she is using the sign for food, although she uses it sometimes just to signal that she wants something not necessarily food.

And so the endless chasing begins! Ara is like a wind-up-toy now; you have to constantly take her back to a starting point so she doesn't get too far out of range. We even got out this giant tent-like fort that Joey has and she squealed with joy as she crawled through it. Ara is ecstatic to finally be mobile (translation: follow Joey). I will post the tent photos soon, I took them on my sister's camera and I haven’t transferred them here yet. I have been making all of Ara's finger foods and she has decided (to my delight) that she would just rather eat that than the jars of baby food. I'm so flattered! No one has ever liked my cooking before. I do wonder though what to do, as I stare at the cupboard FILLED with jars of baby food.

I'm feeling really lethargic, I have been going hard core on the diet and I think it is just the adjustment period. I had gotten used to carbs, and I am craving something sweet so much! Plus Ara is all of the sudden so much faster than she used to be! I went to the birth center for a routine exam and I was really surprised how emotional I was. I was flooded with memories, good memories. I have such a warm spot in my heart for that place and the women who work there (sorry I've never seen a male working there). The midwives and nurses are the most caring people you can ever hope to come across in the health industry. I can't say enough about them, I hope someday the world will suddenly change and money hungry no heart hospitals and insurance companies will look to places like the Birth and Woman's Health Center for inspiration.

And... I'm tired and rambling. Goodnight! 

"I think the only reason I never lost my mind is that I knew I was innocent. That wasn't a happy thought, so the dementors couldn't suck it out of me..."

~SiriusBlack

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

Caution Child at Play!

Ara crawled today! She has been getting around by scooching, rolling, and turning but today she got up on her hands and knees and zoooomed across the living room! I felt the tears well up and Bard looked at me and said, " You sound sad! She is going to think you're sad!". I only cry because I'm so proud and well... it seems like she is growing up so fast! On a less happy note, Ara still hasn't really shaken the cold that she has had for about 2 weeks (we took her to see her ped last week and they checked for strep throat). She went to her well-baby visit today and the doctor wants to have her lungs X-rayed to check for any repertory infections. Everything else about her visit was positive though. She is in the 75.90 percentile, she weighs 20.1 pounds, and is 28 inches tall. I love that you can say her height in inches! Unfortunately she had to get 3 immunization shots today even though she was already feeling sick. That made for an hard day for her, but she tries hard to keep a smile on her face. I told her that for Mother's Day I would like her to feel better and get lots of rest lol!

Is it on me?? I think it's on me!!

Early this morning (4 AM) I was ripped from a deep sleep by a strange scratchy noise. I had fallen asleep on the couch so I laid there listening, trying to pinpoint the source. It was almost like the sound of a hard drive working hard so I got up and walked over to TomPuter, nothing. I turned towards the torch lamp I had left on, nope. Then I realize... it's coming from the trash right next to the lamp. The trash is empty except for a few chile saladito seeds, a candy wrapper and... a COCKROACH! Oh you didn't know? I have a paralyzing fear of roaches (and snakes). I stood there horrified. What should I do? The bug was trying to climb up the side but apparently couldn't get a grip on the plastic liner. It was helpless, and yet I was frozen with fear. My mind was racing, my skin was crawling, and the bug... well he was relentlessly trying to climb with his disgusting little legs. I wanted to wake up Bard, instead I called my cat, Chester. Kuku (AKA Chester) immediately heard the scratching when he entered the room. He crouched down looking excited. I grabbed him up because I was suddenly afraid he would knock the trash over and the bug would be free! In my mind a sad little plan was forming. Using a big black trash bag I covered the top of the trash can, turned it over, and used a twisty tie to close it. Then holding the bag at arms length in front of me like a bomb I ran to the back door, opened it, and threw the bag, trash can, and roach as far as I could. It was a metal can so it hit the cement with a sound like a gun. I slammed the door and then pleaded with Kuku to sleep with me to watchout for more bugs. So now I need a new trash can... and to never see another roach as long as I live! ICK! Also... if someone could please pick up the trash bag outside my back door, it would be greatly appreciated.

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::Ara Update::

"I have a name!"
Yesterday morning I came into the kitchen where Ara was having her breakfast and like she always does when she spots me, Ara stops, and stares at me expectantly. Unlike an adult Ara looks you straight in the eye, reading you, she tries to keep her face neutral but you can see the smile that is waiting to burst forth. She looked like she was willing me to come to her! I bent down to kiss (and smell) her head and she turned to me and said very seriously, "Mom". Bard, my sister, and I all drew in breath and waited. Still looking at me she says, "Mama" and then as we are all starting to cheer she says, "Mom" one more time! I have a name! Woo hoo! She called me Mom a few times today and she doesn't seem to think it is extraordinary but it makes my heart skip a beat everytime.

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"Yam Yum"
I made Ara Yams today, and she loves them. So much so that she painted her entire face, highchair, and everyone within arm reach with them. We also gave her a rice cake for the first time and she had a blast. Bard was making fun of me today for my strange interest in making babyfood since I am known for burning water.

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"Rolly Polly baby"
It's amazing how fast she is growing, I think we can almost officially say she is crawling. She still doesn't have the hands and knee thing completely down but she can pivot, roll, backwards crawl, and lunge to get where she is going. She seems really focused on pulling herself up with furniture, maybe she thinks crawling if for the dogs and she would prefer to skip ahead to cruising.

Smokey smokersons moved in.

New people moved into the townhouse that connects to ours and I have to say we have definitely had better neighbors. For one thing, they smoke like (insert analogy here) and it sounds like they enjoy a good game of "Slam your body against the wall". I think I am particularly sensitive about the smoke issue because growing up I didn't have a choice about breathing smoke. Everyone in my family smokes except for me and it was something I had to deal with. I am sorry to all of you smokers out there... It's nothing against you personally. Just that you have chosen an activity that really stinks up the air! In short, you're stinky! Ok, ok I'll stop before I get too many hate e-mails. I happen to like a good deal of people who smoke and I'm sure they could complain about something I do that er.. stinks as well.

Ara Update:

• I can't get over how cute she is when she is trying to crawl. Cute cute cute.
• She holds her breath when she is trying really hard to get her butt in the
  air.
• She has adopted a cute stuffed kitty as her favorite toy. She chews on
  it, talks to it, and hugs it when she is sleepy.
• She has recently discovered she has a tongue. She likes to stick it out and roll it around in her mouth. She also loves to play with other people's tongues!

Me update:

• I am tired! It's 11 PM and I should have gone to bed an hour ago.
  
• I played Final Fantasy for about an hour tonight. I suddenly felt like doing something that was completely unrelated to real life!
  
• This is a crazy week and I am already wishing it was over.
  
• I have been thinking a lot lately about starting a graphic design certificate program. I think I will look into a summer class.
  
• I was doing pretty good on my diet until today. I went all day without eating and then had drive through hell on the way to work.
  

:(

Today marks a week since Ara and I are no longer breastfeeding. I feel a lot of sadness about this. We have been through some stressful times the past 3 months and my milk supply wasn't keeping up with her growing demand. I tried, I really did. I don't want regret or sadness to cloud my beautiful memories. Ara was exclusively BF until she was 6 months and I should feel proud about that and stop dwelling on the fact that the experts say 1 year. It is a personal issue. The most personal issue I can think of. Ara pretty much weaned herself, she wanted more milk and the bottles have a faster flow. I am so grateful that I was able to give my little girl the best start possible. I had a lot of support from Bard, the Birth Center, and my Mom and I needed it to get through the difficult beginnings. I am going to lift my head and look forward to all of the wonderful stages that are to come. I am! It's crazy I almost feel like I am saying goodbye to a good friend... I have read all of these articles on how to make weaning easier on your baby, and it turns out I am the one who needed weaning support. My daughter is not afraid of change, she knows she is loved, and she has an unbreakable spirit! Ok, I tried but I still feel sad. I guess I need more time. Thanks for listening.

Matrix and Legos

We just finished watching the last Matrix again. One of the best things that can be said for that movie is that it gives you plenty to complain about when it's over. Oh and go go Will Smith's wife!

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Ara was a super cutie today. She does this thing where she puts her forehead on yours and moves her head back and forth. I don't know where she got that but she has done it since she was probably 4 months. Anyway, she was giving out lots of Ara head-hugs (as we call them), and she was all smiles and giggles. She seems to be feeling a lot better, her appetite is back, her nose is less... drippy, and she is back to crawling/wiggling around. I haven't really gotten a chance to rest yet so I'm still feeling blah.

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We got her this gigantic bin full of really gigantic legos at Walmart. She has been fascinated with Joey's regular legos so it seemed like a good buy. First thing she did was dump out the legos and play with the plastic bin. There you have it. We should have just gotten her a rubber maid box. I had fun building with them though!

Mom 101 :: NAP TIME

10:01 AM I put Ara in her crib for a nap. She flips onto her tummy before I even leave the room.

10:05 AM On the baby monitor I hear her making cooing noises and crawling around her crib. Her crib-music thing turns on.

10:06 AM She makes frustrated noises. Probably backwards crawled herself into a corner.

10:07 AM I stand by the door deciding if I should go in.

10:08 AM I decide to go in then she suddenly stops crying and makes little squeaky happy noises. So I wait some more.

10:09 AM I wish I had a video monitor so I could see what in the world she does in there.

10:10 AM She cries the "Mommy come get me cry" I stand by the door again. She stops. I start to walk away. She cries again, sounding very tired.

10:11 AM I am standing near the door, hoping she will find her blanky and fall asleep.

10:12 AM Still hoping. Crying is now off and on. Maybe just maybe she is drifting off.

10:13 AM Crib music-thing stops playing. I haven't heard any sounds for about ONE MINUTE!

10:14 AM Silence. I start to relax. I even consider going to the bathroom since I really have to pee!

10:15 AM I am still sitting near the monitor. I still have not gone to the bathroom.

10:16 AM I finally believe she is asleep and run to pee!

10:18 AM Relief. She is asleep and my bladder is empty! Now I have an hour to clean up from breakfast. Get ready for lunch. And although I should return a few phone calls and look some stuff up I plan to lay down instead. This cold is kicking my butt and I couldn't sleep at all last night.

10:53 AM She wakes up with a cough and cries.

10:54 am I go get her!

18 minutes to get her to sleep. 36 minutes of sleep. Play, lunch, wash, play, repeat.

Ara and I have colds. She complains less than me though!

Summer is almost here and I am really looking forward to it. I feel a little stretched these days and I could use some R & R with Ara. Watching the cacti come into bloom makes me a little nostalgic (wow that word was hard to spell.. Another job for SPELL CHECK).

Last summer I...

• Spent long hours laying on the couch watching the birds in the trees and daydreaming about my little baby.
• I agonized over names.
• I drank WAY to many strawberry shakes from Mc Donalds (drool). By the way a small strawberry shake has more carbs in it than I used to eat in 2 days!
• I wandered aimlessly around Baby's R Us declaring everything cute.

/sigh

You name it, I can mushify it!

TO DO:

• Take apart and get rid of desk in living room
  
• Laundry
  
• Prepare fruit/veggies for Ara (boil until mushy!)
  
• Go to Target: baby food, formula, washcloths
  
• Sweep/mop kitchen
  
• Clean bathroom
  
• Check studio time for lessons on Thursday
  
• Return phone calls
  
• Call Ped about Ara's runny nose and goopy eye
  
  

Mushy Food, my specialty!

Ara LOVES my cooking. Finally someone who appreciates my talent for boiling stuff until it's mushy. Carrots, pears, apples... you name it, I can mushify it!

Ara Update:

• Food on tray :: in hand :: not squished :: into mouth!
  
• She can really cover some ground on her hands and knees, the only drawback is that she is going backwards and that pisses her off.
  
• She is exploring strawberry this week.
  
• She is starting to assign certain sounds to objects. The dog and cat are officially labeled. Me? I'm still just the lady who comes answers to ANY sound so I'm not worthy :)
  

My sister got in a car accident today, nothing serious just a really small fender bender. The driver she rear ended seemed a bit dogey though and it got me to thinking about how to respond when you are involved in an accident. I was creating a form that would remind me to gather all of the important information and keeping it in the car with me. SOoooo since bard is badgering me to come watch "Yo Mama" (a sort of funny new comic show we found last night) I will just copy paste what I found and work on the rest later.

• Other driver information:
  Driver's date of birth
  Driver's DL #/State
  Driver's name & address
  Driver's license plate #/State
  Driver’s insurance company name
  Policy # and expiration date
  Policy holder's name & address
  Vehicle owner's name & address
  Injuries or property damage

Also...

If you kill or injure an animal, pull over to the side of the road and stop. Try to find the owner. If you can’t find the owner, call the nearest humane society or call the police or CHP. Do not try to move an injured animal and never leave an injured animal to die.

Now Showing

Now Showing :: Ara trying out her new car seat!

I'm actually just using this as a test video. I am trying out Picasa (some sort of image organizer software from Google).

Sad Stove Update :: It sat out in the sun for about 2 weeks, right where I photographed it. It served as a work table for the guys who were fixing up the place so I never imagined they were going to plop it back inside the apartment! Viva la Stove!

Hi, I'm old.

Hi, I'm old.
Don't worry, my cholesterol is good and I still seem able to get up after I fall down. But, I am definitely old. I know it's not politically correct to declare this within earshot of people who are numerically older than me. I know this, and yet I am declaring it on the web (where I assume people older than me serf). I have been thinking about how super old I will be when Ara goes to high school. My parents were much younger when they had me. When my Mom was my age I was already 10! Ara is going to make me drop her off a block from the movie theatre, I just know it.

I have even suddenly seen the wisdom in minivans.

The list:

The diet starts tomorrow. Carbs Be-GONE!

Try to make Ara's some baby food from fresh ingredients.

Practice the Ginastera piece.

Lucy is pregnant, I know I shouldn't be excited.. but I am! We will be making reservations at the hermitage No-Kill Shelter for the kittens.

Ara Update:

She is SOOOO close to crawling! She gets up on her hands and knees and rocks back and forth.

She can officially roll both directions.

Every time she sees the cat she says a specific word. I think that might mean cat in her language.

I have been sitting in my computer chair for about 20 minutes now half zoning out half skimming random blogs. I ran across this one; Entering Turtle Land. I scrolled down just glancing at the pictures. As soon as I saw the cute puppy pictures I began to read. Cute puppywuppy named Yuki. Cute story. Just the frame of mind I wanted to go to bed in. Early morning tomorrow and a baby shower in the afternoon. Next week is crazy, I am subbing for a chamber orchestra in town and I have to leave teaching early and drive like mad to make it to rehearsals semi-on time. /sigh. I'm going to pick a Harry and read until my eyes close (which won't be long).

Food for Cash? Are you crazy?

This morning my Dad, Bard, Ara, and I stopped in at Barnes to browse for books we never plan to buy and of course an Italian Soda (raspberry) from Starbucks. Ara missed her morning nap so I had to keep driving her around in her stroller to keep her entertained. When we finally gave up we headed for this Italian Bistro my Dad had heard was really good. Everything was cheap, hot, and pretty darn delicious. We had the all-you-can-eat pasta, salad, and sandwich bar. Ara sat in a high chair watching all of the people and practicing her amazon woman yell. She was in heaven because we were sitting right in the path of the buffet and everyone in the restaurant stopped by to tell her she was adorable. One by one she threw all of the teething toasts I had packed on the floor. I was reading in the "What to Expect in the First Years" book recently about how basically 'dirt don't hurt'. All the same though, I wouldn't eat something off of the floor so I don't see why I should encourage Ara to. I know that at some point she will probably be licking floors like those but... never mind lets not think about it. We had her in the new car seat, that we agonized over and, guess what? I'm completely having second thoughts about the model we chose! We originally got a Graco from Target that was forward facing and when we got to reading the manual, it went straight back. It's crazy that Graco wouldn't mention that the requirement was 20 pounds, 27 inches, and (the part they left off) at least 1 year old. So next we went to the shiny baby stuff emporium, ortherwise known as Baby's-R-Us. We touched, poked, and pulled on every seat in the place. I wish we had the budget to buy the super safe, side impact protected, cushy Britax seat, but alas $300+ was a bit steep. The chair we chose was another Graco and was in the $150 range. It has really thick memory and EPS foam, but does not have the special side impact protection, AND it's u-g-l-y. Wow, I certainly digressed there from my restaurant story. So, anyway the bill came and as we went to pay the very stressed out waitress starts explaing that their card machine is down! Everyone was in a panic. What were we to do? Seriously, as I glanced around the restaurant and I saw people rumaging in their bags and shooting confused looks at their dining partners. Cash, what is that? Eventually, we sorted out our bill by leaving cash for the tip and paying with a (pause for dramatic effect) check. We were told this was an exception because they normally don't accept checks. By the way when did people stop accepting checks? I didn't even notice, can you still write them in grocery stores and Targets? Poor waitress lady explained that they wouldn't have a new machine until tomorrow morning. I wish I could have stayed... What would we have done if I didn't randomly have my check book on me? Wash dishes? I think when I began this story I was planning on summing up with some witty conclusion about how we seem so advanced but take away our 'machine' and we are totally helpless. In retrospect that conclusion doesn't seem all that witty. You know something else that wouldn't seem witty? Well, I could post this without running spell check! I crack myself up. Haha.

Oh Baby

So my sister gets one of those entertainment type magazines, I'm not sure how often they are delivered but it seems pretty frequent. I pick them up now and then and find myself drawn into the baby dramas that are CONSTATLY being reported. Now, I know I have a baby so I am naturally interested (I think anyway) in other people's baby stories. What I wonder though, is everyone else in the world as fascinated as I am in the birth plans and raising of celebrity children? Does everyone care if Angelina chooses to have her baby in a wildlife preserve in Africa? Or weather Katie can scream if she wants to? How many out there want Brittany to buy a car seat and stop using the high chair as a prop for chair dancing? I'm just curious. It seems as if this particular magazine BELONGS to Angelina, Katie, and Brit, they are in it so often. I always crack up when some journalist makes a big deal about Angelina blowing up at Brad for little things... umm the woman is PREGNANT. Understand that the bump is a universal signal for "don't mess with me". Besides I imagine, just from the looks of her or something that she is not to be messed with under most circumstances. That may be unfair... I don't actually know anything about her, besides what I've read in unsubstantiated gossip articles. But, she was Laura Croft right? Don't burst my bubble. I was a Tomb Raider fan way back in the day, like in ancient times. The movie was a little unfortunate but she looked the part like no one's business.

Sad Stove

If only the stove could talk. Yes, if only. What wisdom it could impart. Thus begins my photo essay that will change the world! Woe to the Forgotten appliances. My neighbors recently moved out and this is... no WAS their stove. I visited them at their new place yesterday, although I won't be telling the sad stove about it. I couldn't bear the sad look on its knobs if it knew they now have a working oven. We went to a 'quintet BBQ' (minus the bassoon) and had a few laughs. The horn player and his wife are expecting their kid #2 any day now and we all placed our bets. I am on April 20th, boy. I can't believe they have been strong enough not to want to know the sex of the baby. It makes everything so very exciting though. They also have secret names picked out. I so highly approve of the suspense they are creating. Oh speaking of that I have a picture of some teddys' stuck in applesauce to post. Eatable art from their 2 year old son. He is adorable and I was so interested to talk to them about their experiences with baby sign language. Ara hasn't signed back yet, but I've been reading that is normal. It was nifty to pick their brains on child-stuff. We even watched a few Baby Einstein videos which kinda sorta put the other two (the former stove owners) asleep. I keep pausing in my writing, I'm tired. Sunday's we have to get up so freaking early it makes it hard to write at 10-ish at night. Today we went with Bard to his church gig and Ara got to charm the pants off of a whole bunch of church ladies. I didn't make it to my Grandparents anniversary party which I feel bad about. Ara was already so thrown off schedule we didn't dare. Plus, (whine) I had a stomach ache last night so I tried to sleep on the couch. I woke up feeling tired and my back hurts! I feel old. (end whine).

:: Ara Update ::

We had a doctor appointment for Ara this morning. It was an important appointment with an important doctor that we have waited 2 months to see (those who know us will understand). Everything went really well, the doctor ordered the tests that we needed. Ara seemed really hyper the whole time we were there. I think she vaguely remembers the feeling of a hospital and has a general mistrust for anyone wearing scrubs. I don't blame her.. at all. She gave the nurse who tried to listen to her heart a pretty hard time. She tugged on the stethoscope in her ears and squirmed as much as possible as she tried to take her temperature. Give 'em hell Ara! I know some people will think it's crazy to say this about an 8 month old but Ara seems to have a real sense of herself. She knows what she likes and definitely knows when she doesn't like something. I am always amazed that she... how do you say this... exists. It goes along with my wonder at people who cook from scratch. Just a little while ago Ara was nothing but ingredients and WHAM there she is, a real person! Oh, and as a side note the doctor told us he knows 2 people named Ara, and they are both men. When we were considering the name I 'googled' it and found only associations like the American Rifle Association but I just did another search and I did find boys! We found the name on a website for unusual names and it said unisex, so that is my story and I'm sticking to it when she asks! The meanings we found were opinionated and beautiful. She embodies both more than we could have ever imagined. Anyway, for those friends and family reading Ara is doing wonderfully and her tests (after the insurance has approved) will most likely be scheduled for next week. Also for an Charlie and Lola fans out there... "she is small and very funny!"

Roar

Listening to the radio in the car... singing along with what ever comes on. Then that song about going down swinging comes on and I get annoyed. It's hot today and my mind seems to be buried under.. something. I get the sense that everything is slow and hot. I had a non-bad dream last night. Well actually sometime this morning. Since I woke up at 5 AM and didn't fall back to sleep after that.
On Sunday my Grandparents are celebrating their 50th Anniversary. We are having a mini-Easter tomorrow because everyone is off work on Thursdays. So I will have super cute pictures to post tomorrow. It's hot. Bleh. I just ate 3 of those mini Reeses Peanut Butter Cups and that made me think of how I need to go on a diet.

Strange Lizard

This lizard was lounging (upsidedown) in the sun a few mornings ago. He was HUGE for a normal lizard and very suspicious looking. My heart was seriously pounding as I held the camera close to get a good shot. I don't know what it is about reptiles, they freak me out! After his photo shoot the lizard decided he had enough and climbed back over the wall. I wish I had added something for scale but you can tell he is about as big as a cinder block. I'm interested to know what kind of creepy crawly he is. I've never seen a lizzy like him.

Ara Update:: She stood!

It seems like everyday Ara is hitting some huge milestone! It actually makes my heart beat harder or faster or louder or something when ever I think about it. Today, Ara had been down for her nap for about 30 minutes when I start hearing her little voice over the baby monitor. She likes to talk to herself after a good sleep, you see. I listen for a few minutes then creep into the room to sneak a peak. Well, she is WIDE awake laying with her feet in the air. So I help her sit up and we play a game of peak-a-bo through the crib slates. She giggles so cute every time I pop up and pretend to bite her fingers which she has on the top of the crib. Then, out of no where she just pulls herself up! There she is, just standing up on her own. I screamed with delight. Which threw her off a bit, of course. She plopped back down on her butt. Then... she does it again. By this time my excitement has everyone else in the room cheering her on. She has teeth and she stands... what next?

who what where

This is a test post. Therefore it is unlikely to be interesting or worth while in any way. I tried setting this up on my server but it looks like my hosting is not compatible i.e. I don't get it lol. We will see how remote hosting goes for now.

*edit*
With a little help I was finally able to put this page on my server. My old blog is still up but I will be posting updates here. I'm sure it is obvious from the haphazard look of my site that a redesign is in the works. I am up to my old tricks of working for a few hours on a design then when it is all put together I stand back and absolutely hate it! Lol. I am trying to put some forethought into the HTML so that the next redesign will go more smoothly.